I MET THAT BLOKE FROM DEPECHE MODE ONCE
[From Bong 42, December 1999. Words: Marilyn Owen / "Berangere".]
Summary: A Welsh and a French fan describe the times they met members of Depeche Mode in person. [489 words]
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I too met those guys from Depeche Mode once – it was 1990 at Wembley Arena. My cousin who lives in London managed to get some backstage passes from her friend who was friendly with a guy called Warren. He was from America and he was controlling the lights on stage. [1] After the concert which again was excellent, I don’t know why but I get really emotional at Depeche Mode concerts and always end up crying, we were taken backstage. First I made myself look respectable, just in case I saw my hero and my idol Dave Gahan. There was a lot of fans backstage and I don’t know why but I just knew that there was no way that they were going to enter the room that we were in. I asked Warren: “Are the boys going to come in here?” He said “no”, but I begged and pleaded on my knees for him to take me to where Depeche Mode were. After about five minutes of literally doing this guy’s head in, he said to my cousin joy and myself, “follow me”. I was shaking so much that I spilt my lager!! We were led down some corridors and he said: “It’s that door, you’re on your own from here.” We didn’t know which door as there was so many and so we chose one. Joy opened it and there was Dave and his then wife Theresa. [2] We only caught a quick glance as bouncers appeared from everywhere. We then followed the crowd into a huge room and there was Andy and Martin playing a game of pinball. Anyway, Alan appeared and he looked quite different in real life. We watched the game for a while and Joy was calling my name but I wasn’t taking any notice because I was standing right next to Martin. Joy shouted again and so I stepped out into a long corridor. My body froze, my heart beating like a train, my legs were like jelly, I was speechless… There was Dave and he looked beautiful. He then had his black flat top and looked very fit. He came over to us, we shook hands but I never spoke a word. I simply couldn’t. My cousin did all the talking as I was speechless. When it was time to leave I was gutted and broken hearted. I could have stayed for ever. Martin was talking to some fans so I went up to him, shook his hand and told him that I thought Depeche Mode were the best band in the world. He smiled and said: “Thank you very much.” Now that night of 23rd November 1990 has been the best day of my life ever.
Marilyn Owen
Anglesey, England [sic]
Yes, I met those blokes from Depeche Mode once. Firstly, I was lucky enough to meet Dave and then Fletch in front of his restaurant Gascognes on 29th August 1996.
Berangere
France
[1] - This sounds like Warren Flynn, who is listed in the Violator tour programme as a "varilite operator".
[2] - Dave and Theresa didn't tie the knot until 1992. It's fair to assume that the woman wasn't Joanne, who was still his wife at the time, as both Jo's and Theresa's faces are fairly well known amongst fans from their brief appearances in the film 101.